Listen to this podcast. Especially if you've read and subscribe to the ideas in the book:
I Kissed Dating Goodbye.
The Podcast is an examination of the book Song of Solomon, which is how God wants us to date, court, fall in love, marry, make love, and live in marriage.
It might be rather long, but it's well worth it. It's even worth the usual $60 pricetag, but for free, it's a no-brainer.